Yoo In Na + Ji Hyun Woo = Queen InHyun’s Man
“If we became the lovers, what would the consequences be?”
“When I get boyfriend I will force him to to sing for me too.”
“I like older but young looking women.”
“I don’t like pretty boys. I prefer honest men.”
“Direct, direct…
“There is something that I really want to say during today’s session of ‘Raise the Volume’ (about her relationship with Ji Hyunwoo)… I knew this would have a huge impact career-wise, so I was extremely careful… and my mind was wandering all over the place. I thought to myself, ‘Despite the results and reactions from the outside, is this love that I’m allowed to take part of?’ This was the kind of belief I had. If I’m not sure, as much as this is my job and my career, it was difficult and that was the belief I had… For ten days I thought about it immensely, and came to the conclusion that we should purely only consider our feelings and nothing else… I finally contacted him two days ago… I finally called Ji Hyunwoo, who waited for me all this time even though he was probably anxiously waiting (for an answer). We met up at the park and as we were walking along, he said that ‘Although Queen Inhyun’s Man (the drama they recently starred in and met together) is over, I want to try to be Yoo Inna’s Man’. I like him. I have found assurance and I am certain. And he has given me those feelings. I would like to start a beautiful relationship with him and meet him more than anyone else.” - Yoo In Na (translated by : swaggalevel-1000)
This is how you lose her.
You lose her when you forget to remember the little things that mean the world to her: the sincerity in a stranger’s voice during a trip to the grocery, the delight of finding something lost or forgotten like a sticker from when she was five, the selflessness of a child giving a part of his meal to another, the scent of new books in the store, the surprise short but honest notes she tucks in her journal and others you could only see if you look closely.
You must remember when she forgets.
You lose her when you don’t notice that she notices everything about you: your use of the proper punctuation that tells her continuation rather than finality, your silence when you’re about to ask a question but you think anything you’re about to say to her would be silly, your mindless humming when it is too quiet, your handwriting when you sign your name in blank sheets of paper, your muted laughter when you are trying to be polite, and more and more of what you are, which you don’t even know about yourself, because she pays attention.
She remembers when you forget.
You lose her for every second you make her feel less and less of the beauty that she is. When you make her feel that she is replaceable. She wants to feel cherished. When you make her feel that you are fleeting. She wants you to stay. When you make her feel inadequate. She wants to know that she is enough and she does not need to change for you, nor for anyone else because she is she and she is beautiful, kind and good.
You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her.
Sana hindi mo muna kasi binuksan yung SIS ko. Para pumapag-asa ako kahit papano XD
